Let me begin this post to say that I
rarely watch what I want on television anymore. The television is normally set
to Disney Junior or Frozen if my daughter is watching, or basketball if my husband
is home. I used to be able to binge watch with the best of them but having two
children under two, a full-time job, and grad school, I am lucky to watch one show of my choice a week.
I chose to
watch the pilot episode of “The Office” and am so glad that I did. Without the
sound on, there were so many nonverbal behaviors that I was able to observe.
There were a few characters that seemed to spend more time on screen and I was
able to pick out a relationship between two characters (Jim and Pam) that seemed
to actually like each other and were flirting. The boss (Michael) and one of
his employees (Dwight) had a different relationship than that of all the other
employees and boss as Dwight actually seemed to like the boss. All other employees
seemed highly annoyed with their boss and generally uncomfortable when he was
around.
After I
watched the same episode with the sound on, I realized that my observations of
nonverbal behaviors were pretty accurate. There were more emotions that were
evident with sound, such as anger which showed to me previously as annoyance. The
language piece to the show helped to understand why the employees were so
bothered by their boss as he thought he was hilarious but in many cases either
rude or inappropriate.
If I had
watched a show that I am familiar with, my assumptions may have been more
correct but I do feel that the language piece and tone of voice play a huge
part in communication. I feel as though I spent a lot of time figuring out who
each person was and perhaps it would have been easier if I already knew the
characters.
My husband
sat and watched the show with and without sound and we were absolutely
wondering what the characters were saying without the sound. When the sound was
on we were laughing at some parts! I think this may be a show that we watch
more of in the future.
HI Robin,
ReplyDeleteFirst, might I say, the "Office" was one of my favorite shows and you are absolutely correct, there is almost an over abundance of nonverbal communication packet into a short amount of time.
As I reflect on your choice, I believe it relates quite perfectly with that of an early childhood classroom. Children are so animated and express so much nonverbally, oftentimes it was their nonverbal behavior that supported my efforts in meeting their needs or detouring a potential conflict or frustration. Additionally, when proactive, a teacher can also learn to identify the sutble nonverbal cues a child exhibits which is crucial when support language development and/or seeking to discover what triggered a child's negative behavior. Thanks so much for such a great post!
Lynnette