Ms. Hollidge was my first grade teacher. She is hands down
the teacher that I will always remember. I had some family situations that
caused me to not want to go to school each day and I remember Ms. Hollidge
always having a smiling face and giving me encouragement that I needed. I was
very shy as a child and Ms. Hollidge was able to group me with a couple of
girls in the class that I ended up being friends with all through my childhood.
During my first grade year I also broke my foot. This wonderful teacher allowed
me to stay with her each day during my recess time going above what she needed
to do to. Ms. Hollidge is one of the main reasons that I wanted to become a
teacher. The care and support she gave to me when I was quite vulnerable was
never forgotten and I strive to be as great of a teacher as she was for me.
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Emily and I |
Emily was my best friend as a child (and to this day). We
met on a soccer team and immediately became friends and were overjoyed when we
found out that we were members at the same summer pool! Emily was the friend
that encouraged me. She pushed me to be better at sports and helped me come out
of my shell. She made me feel special because she chose to be my friend and she
made me a part of her family when I needed that stability. To this day I can
still count on Emily to encourage me and to include me in all her family gatherings.
I know that I will have her support always.
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Steven and I |
Steven is one of my four siblings and the one that nurtured
me the most as a young child. Being the youngest of five children, my parents
didn’t always have time to do special things with me. Steven is the one who
taught me how to ride a bike. Steven is the one that would help me with my
homework after school. He is seven years older than me and he always had such
patience in teaching me things. Although he was probably told to do all the
things that he did to help me by my parents, I still felt special as a child
because I got to spend time with my big brother. As an adult, I try to use the
same patience when teaching my students and his calm demeanor was a great
influence for me.
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My mom and I |
My mom most definitely influenced my life as a child. She
was able to stay home with me for my first few years and we had such an amazing
bond. She was always so loving and would ask me about my day when I was in my
early years of school. I think I was lucky to be the youngest because I do feel
like I got some extra attention. I loved that attention I got from my mother. I
knew that if I was sick, she would let me stay home from school and would
always take great care of me. As an adult, I still call my mom whenever I feel
under the weather and ask for advice. As an adult and a new mother, I strive to
always show my love to my daughter like my mother showed to me. I will try to
keep a sense of humor like she did when times get tough.
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My Dad and I |
My dad is amazing. He has always been so supportive of
everything I wanted to do. My dad was a hard worker and worked long hours. He
still managed to come home every evening and cook us dinner and make sure our
homework was done (sometimes mom was not available to do these things). My dad
took each and every one of us to and from our soccer practices and games (all
five of us played on five different teams many times on the same days) or made
sure we had transportation. When he played with me he would let me do whatever
I pleased which of course made me feel so special. He would play house and be the
baby, let me style his hair, and even play with my dolls. He really taught me
that even if I have to work hard, I can always find time for my family. My dad
is still always there for me. If I need something, he will make sure that it
gets done.
I was so lucky to have these people in my childhood web. With all of their love and support, I had a successful childhood. Most of these people are still a big part of my life and I can count on them for
anything.
Hi Robin,
ReplyDeleteThat picture of you and your dad is precious! It was nice to learn a little bit more about you through your childhood web. Being one of five children must have been a little difficult at times. However, it sounds like you had a lot of support within your family and outside of it. Being welcomed into Emily’s family when you really needed that surely helped, also. I wrote in my blog about the idea that a mom or dad doesn’t always have to be biological to have the same meaning to us and it sounds like Emily is your sister of the heart. Thank you for sharing your personal story.
Wendy
Robin,
ReplyDeleteThis is fantastic! I love hearing stories about other people, especially about how teachers were inspired to become teachers. It's amazing what your first grade teacher, Ms. Hollidge, was able to do for you, and that it sent you on your life-long journey. I am also the youngest child of several siblings, but I was born so much later that I didn't really get to grow up with any of them. If I had, I might have put one of them in my web like you did with your brother, Steven. I'm glad that you had such a strong support system around you, and it sounds like your childhood relationships set you up for a well-rounded adulthood. Thank you for sharing.
Mary Grace
Robin,
ReplyDeleteI loved reading about your mesosystem! It seems that there were many people who you felt you could rely on when things were challenging. I especially loved your stories about your dad. It sounds like he gave you a sense of unconditional love, which is, in my opinion, paramount if a person hopes to find that love in adulthood. I imagine that this has made you a very loving mother as well! I am actually now curious to hear about where all of these people are now. Also, would you say that these relationships have colored the way in which you formulate NEW relationships? Meaning, do you look for the characteristics of the people from your early childhood mesosystem in people that you meet now?
Thanks again for sharing!
-Colby